What is Happiness?
Simple … Fried egg + Soya sauce = Happiness. This is our food happiness.
The fried egg must be crispy by the side and eat immediately once served.
Idea to cook spaghetti Bolognese from the balance of tomato paste and tomato sauce that I used for lasagna. I also like the meat sauce from the lasagna recipe. With that, I cooked spaghetti Bolognese for lunch today.
The recipe is pretty similar to the lasagna meat sauce recipe. I changed the carrot with portabella mushroom.
The ingredients below are good for 6 serving.
Ingredients for Meat Sauce:
Directions:

We all love to eat Spaghetti Bolognese. Jared likes it even more to eat the pasta that left to rest overnight.
Jared and I love to eat lasagna. I’ve tried baking lasagna once, sometime back and it wasn’t a successful one. Lots of ingredients, not cheap with 3 different types of cheese, quite a bit of work and take a long time to prepare too.
After almost a year of staying away from baking lasagna, I decided to give it a try once again. Remembering what was good and what wasn’t from the first experience. The meat sauce was nice but the lasagna noodle was still hard.
1st lesson that I remembered is lots of ingredients to be prepared. I got Jared and Jaden to follow me to Hero Market and gave them the list of ingredients to purchase. Both of them were excited, did it like in amazing race, trying to compete who got the most items. I just followed them around, watched what they picked and ensure they were the right ones.
2nd lesson … it is quite expensive to bake lasagna with the 3 different types of cheese. I bought the cheeses from my favourite baking shop. It is cheaper. I’ve also changed the cheese sauce from using ricotta cheese recipe to cheddar cheese.
The ingredients below are good for 6 serving.
Ingredients for Meat Sauce:
Ingredients for Cheese Sauce:
Ingredients for Cheese Topping:
Directions:
Baked lasagna on my favorite Pyrex baking dish. I like it for the right size, square and made of glass which allows me to see the food clearly.
Much successful lasagna for this 2nd attempt. The meat sauce was really delicious especially with the herbs and cheese used.
It took me about 4 hours to prepare and bake this lasagna. I don’t think I’ll bake it often but there’ll surely be 3rd time and more.
When I was working, some days, Jared and Jaden would have their dinner passed 9pm after their Kumon classes. We usually eat in neighbourhood restaurant and by the time we ordered our food and food was served, it was already passed 9pm. I felt guilty of them having dinner so late.
Now, I will try to cook on those days that they have Kumon classes. By the time they are home, dinner is ready.
For today, I decided to try this steam chicken with olive vegetable shared by Auntie Gertie. She bought me this bottle of olive vegetable and gave me the recipe below.
The same seasoning sauce can be used to cook noodles.
I cooked simple dinner with at least a meat. Still adjusting my life and I want to ensure this is sustainable and not frighten with cooking.
I thought I could have the last piece of chicken and Jaden asked “Can I have these (the balance of tofu and chicken) for lunch tomorrow?”. I am happy that they love my cooking and also happy that they can have home cooked food before their Kumon classes and not after 9pm.
By 8pm, dinner was done, dishes washed, garbage thrown, floor mopped and I’ve freshen up. Not an easy job but satisfying. Hope I can keep this going. Let’s see.
We had guest from China in our office few weeks ago. One of the items that she bought home as souvenir is our famous Bak Kut Teh herbal pack. I bought the following 3 different brands for her to try.
Today, I feel like cooking Bak Kut Teh for dinner as it is relatively easy to cook.
I bought the Bak Kut Teh packet (the middle in the above picture) and only use 1 packet of the herbal pack and reduced half of the ingredients, to as follows:
Cooking instructions:
Jared likes the smell of the Bak Kut Teh while it was simmering and requested for some to taste.
We had the Bak Kut Teh as dinner, together with steamed tofu.
Teambuilding and cooking … seem to go in pair nowadays. More and more companies are organizing cooking classes or cooking competitions as a form of teambuilding. It’s easy to organize as there are so many culinary schools that offer such activities. The price is reasonable too. Most of all, at the end of the day, there will be so much fun, laughter, noise and good food to satisfy the hungry stomachs.
When our team decided to have cooking class as teambuilding, I suggested Food Studio and Bayan Indah which are my favourite culinary places. Bayan Indah has higher minimum pax requirement. As there were only 8 of us, we signed up with Food Studio for our teambuilding.
It was nice to see Chef Paul again, our chef for the day.
It was also nice to be back to familiar place … a kitchen fully equipped with Electrolux appliances.
We learned to make Smoked duck salad as appetizer, herb crusted filet of salmon for our main course and Pavlova for our dessert.
The presentation of the Summerset Greens with Duck Breast and Roasted Pine Nuts by Paul Chef. Beautiful! Love the different bright colors of the salad been presented on a white plate. We had to repeat and present the smoked duck salad in the same way.
These were presented by all of us on our dining table. I think we did a good job. They all looked presentable.
A few days later, we were planning for dinner to celebrate Mom’s birthday. SC suggested to have dinner at home and she would roast chicken and grill lamb. Since it was a Western dinner, I volunteered to try to make this newly learned smoked duck salad.
The following are the ingredients:
First, slice the duckbreast into thin slices. I bought this sliced, frozen smoked duck from Isetan. No need to slice, just need to warm them in oven.
Remove skin from orange and cut out filets.
Whisk together olive oil with orange juice and dash of salt and pepper.
The whisked salad dressing.
Roast the pinenuts in a dry pan until golden brown.
Mix salad with dressing in large bowl.
Slice tomatoes in half. Cut mango into small cubes.
Arrange salad nicely on a plate and add sliced duck.
Top with onion sprouts and roasted pinenuts.
Decorate with tomatoes, mango cubes and orange filets.
This is how I presented it.
Guess we had teambuilding at home too. I organized it like a factory line, assigned duties to my siblings and nephews. Even Dad has to cut mango into small cubes. Each person was in charge of one item and presented it on each plate the way I showed them. It was fun, with lots of noise and laughter in the process.
Our table setting for Mom’s birthday dinner and it was a success!
2 weeks ago, I received an email from my company’s New Employee Assistant titled “Happy 1-Year Anniversary”. How time flies, I’ve been with the company for a year now. Honeymoon period is over, no more excuses and can’t say “I’m new” anymore 🙁
The ride so far has been (very) bumpy and definitely not quite straightforward. I had the set of challenges while I also have set of opportunities. I’m no longer a people manager, instead I’ve to report to a manager who is younger than me. sighhh.
Looking back, I think this is good for me. While I was climbing up the corporate ladder, this allows me to step back, experience, reflect and learn from it. I understand staff feeling better, I knew the frustration of staff and the expectation of staff from their manager as I certainly have expectation from my manager now. I promised myself that I will be a better manager when I become one again 🙂
There’s lot of opportunities to learn in this company, especially the rhythm of business and the way we communicate and share as a community. In the span of one year, I’ve attended so many conferences inclusive of conference in Atlanta, training in Singapore twice, trainings in local office, townhalls, online trainings, etc. There are so many community calls and learning circle in the company. The word “leverage” and “share” are keys here.
On personal side, I suddenly realized we’ve been eating out a lot since Moch went back. I felt like cooking (not baking). Must focus on “must have” and not “nice to have” when time is not on our side.
Early morning, I went to my favourite TTDI market for groceries shopping. Have not been to the market for a while and I saw two Porsche in the car park. Is this the new trend now, driving sports car to market or TTDI market become so high end already?
It was good to catch up with the aunties from the market. I bought some roast pork as I intended to fry rice for lunch. Bought pork ribs to boil soup, prawns (small and large for pasta, fry with vegetables, etc), cod fish to steam for dinner, dory fish for fish and chips, chicken, vegetables, mango, etc. Stopped at Soya bean stall and Bake with Yen to buy bread crumbs and self raising flour.
When I reached home, I quickly cleaned up all the seafood and meat that I bought. I cooked fried rice for lunch and this is my first time attempting to cook fried rice.
The taste was not bad actually.
After lunch, we went to Parkson to get running shoes for Jared. He has outgrown his current pair. Ever since the advice from Jaden’s food podiatric, we are very particular when selecting the right pair of shoes for our boys.
We always end up buying Adidas shoes.
After a short stop at MPH, we went home and it was time to cook dinner.
Jared requested for his favourite Tumeric Chicken and it wasn’t hard to cook this.
I got this steam codfish recipe from The Star Kuali, Amy Beh’s recipe. Hubby said the fish was nicely done, not overcooked. The flesh was fresh and tender.
This is by Hubby. Our family love the steamed egg by him as it’s smooth and soft. We always don’t have enough to go round among us despite him steaming 3 eggs. I told him to steam 4 eggs but he refused to listen. He just love us fighting over his steamed egg.
This Kou Gei Soup is Jaden’s favourite. In fact, all these dishes are dishes that Moch used to cook for us and the boys have been missing them. I’m glad that we can cook pretty close to the food that we used to eat at home. Everyone was happy. I’m not a bad cook after all.
After dinner, it’s time to wash up all the pots and dishes, threw away rubbish and mop the floor. I was so tired at the end of it. My weekend was gone and it’s not easy to have Career and Family in our life. It’s not impossible but lot’s of choices to make and sacrifices in between.
And this is the choice that I made!
This time round, our 5th Auntie who used to be a home science teacher cooked her famous curry chicken and she also made Crispy Seaweed Strips.
Dean’s fiance, Christine who joined us for the very first CNY celebration in Kluang loves to eat the Crispy Seaweed Strips. Our auntie offered to make for her to bring back to US.
After lunch, we had our 3rd cooking class. This time round, our auntie taught us to make Crispy Seaweed Strips.
Ingredients:
As the seaweed strips are still hot, they will continue to cook and turn brown.
We had quite a few helpers in the kitchen and we worked like “factory line” with different people performing different tasks. We were having fun and the entire process of making and frying the seaweed strips were done in half an hour. The seaweed strips were crispy, smell great and tasted good too.
Suggestions:
We had lots of laugher, changing idea and cooking tips. It was certainly a good bonding time during this Chinese New Year break.
Part of our CNY tradition is each family will buy or make their famous food back to Kluang.
We have non-stop of good food that was so hard to resist. Nobody can ever have a successful “diet plan” during this CNY get together.
The second cooking class that we had is to cook “Ju Hu Char” by Auntie Jenny again.
This dish goes very well with lettuce.
Today, over CNY family gathering, I have the opportunity to watch Auntie Jenny made her famous roast pork again.
The roast pork that we use to roast at home is nice but not as nice as Auntie Jenny’s. The most challenging part to make a good roast pork is to have crispy skin and not the hard skin.
Ingredients:
Mix into paste:
There are tricks to this.





Aunty Jenny recently bought a halogen convection oven and she told us it’s good to roast pork. It’s fast, visible, not smoky and easy to clean.
The roast pork goes very well with mustard sauce.
Despite the 4 big pieces of roast pork, the roast pork were all eaten over our lunch.